August 24, 2011
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Credit
Credit
No, not Visa, Master Card, American Express, Discover, etc. This is the other kind of credit. This credit is public acknowledgment or praise, typically that given or received when a person's responsibility for an action or idea becomes or is made apparent. It's only fair if you consider we're pretty quick on the trigger to bash Xanga when they don't deliver. Seems like a good idea to be just as quick on the trigger when they deserve credit. Remember how I said that Xanga couldn't keep the dogs out? Well, they still can't keep them from coming around leaving nasty little deposits on your lawn, sidewalk, yes sometimes even your porch or living room if you leave the door open. When it's hot like this in the summer we like to leave doors open for our friends to come by and have some iced tea or lemonade and some conversation. Sadly, other things come in those open doors too. Mosquitos, bees, hornets, dogs, and yes, even pigs wander in sometimes while we're out. They never wipe their feet until they get inside though. Then they wipe their feet on your oriental rugs, sofas curtains. They just don't care. Why should they? Their brute beasts, like a bull in a china cabinet or a pig in a poke. One of them got into my Xanga home and ripped around snorting, pawing, rooting and leaving a load of stink in nearly every room. Not wanting my friends to have to step in that crap I cleaned it out. Well, it didn't take long before that herd ran back through depositing their filth everywhere again and again. So, I did what anyone who cares about what his friends step in would do. I closed all the doors and windows to keep the beasts out. That meant my friends had to knock or ring the bell or wonder what had become of me.
Not having just fallen off the turnip truck, I had enough presence of mind to go have a look at the Xanga Terms of Use. You know, the ones we all agreed to when we started our sites? It's updated from time to time, but it hardly matters anyway because most of us didn't read them when we signed up. We were too anxious to start blogging. Anyway, lo and behold, there was this part in their where we agreed not to be nasty, smelly brute beasts who crapped all over other people and their homes. So, I reported the offender and his/her three sites started within hours of each other with no posts, just comments and only in once place. At my house. Comments is a misnomer. It was pure hate spam. To make a long story longer, Xanga took a couple of days after I reported the sites but they shut them down and thanked me for letting them know. Not what I expected, not what I'd come to expect from Xanga so I was surprised. It was like I actually had someone on the home team who cared and was willing to check it out and enforce the Terms of Use.
In a perfect world there wouldn't be a need for such things as Terms of Use agreements. Sadly, though this world may be perfect, what populates it often has wires crossed or in one way or another is wrongly connected. Or as my friend, Wil Carter would say, They were not properly socialized to humans when they were young hedgehogs. Whatever the reason may be, they are full of unpleasant manifestations, lack social graces, feel entitled and fail to understand a certain sense of decorum that the more civilized amongst us try to develop and display. Yes, they have many justifications for their rude, crude and socially unacceptable behavior. What do you suppose tops the list? Right, they don't like someone. Someone didn't treat them the way they think they should be treated. Or, that old stand by, my dog ate their homework. Xanga may not be able to keep the dogs out, but they have proved to me that they are willing to take out the trash and for that I am grateful. Thank you, Xanga! I'm actually going to open the doors and air the place out now that I know you've got my back.
Comments (18)
Sheesh, I wish I paid attention to all that when all that was going on over on my lawn. And thank you for quoting our Wil. Gosh. I love xanga for you doing that. In other words, I did not report my issue in the correct verbiage. Dang all that. Good work, xanga over lords.
@queenie - Yeah, I'm pretty proud of them. Part of it is our responsibility too. The world's not as nice a place as once it was and we really need to be more aware of our set up. No more leaving the front door key under the flower pot or leaving the back slider open for a friend. Hate and other negative emotions spread through a field of dried, empty gourds like wildfire.
Sigh...that is why I hardly ever carry a grudge. Great blog and great comment. You are always a poetic grown up with out the commitment.
I've never expected Xanga to do anything about jerks. I've lived online so long, though, that I barely even notice them and they've almost never swarmed on me here. I just delete comments and ignore them till they go away most of the time. I'm really surprised that you would get attacked. I can't imagine someone thinking it entertaining to go after you. You're such an intelligent (seemingly) balanced guy
I'm really glad you got what you're entitled to.
That's much faster than I would ever have thought they'd take care of it, given my experiences. But I'm glad!! No one should have to deal with that stuff...but the ability to act like total jerks and never be actually known for who they are makes lots of people behave like schoolyard bullies...even when they are way past 7.
@moniet - Since I expected to be blown off and it happened that they took care of it I'm just thrilled. I know it's not a final solution. Anonymity can bring out the very worst in people and often does. It's really not their fault. They truly do not know what they are doing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. It looks like they do but they don't. No one would knowingly do that much harm to themselves and that's the only real harm they can do if you don't accept their "gifts" when they leave them.
When I first came over to Xanga years ago from the "My Dear Diary" site, one reason was because they didn't allow anonymous posters (plus a bunch of my friends were migrating over). I had a few anon pigs over on MDD and they could be vicious. My site was open for several years, until one day I decided I wasn't willing to take the chance again (or have my family members find and read my blog, which tends to be venting about them) .. and made it fully protected. Of course, my blog is still more of a journal/venting place for me than a topical blog, so protected makes sense for me.
I swear some folks are professional "hater" commenters. Here, and on the comments at various news sites. The ignorance and hate is astounding sometimes. Thanks for letting me continue to read here
@AmyinVA - Yeah, I just don't get it, or maybe I do and it's just too painful to admit. The internet, like television, had so much potential for good, but we as a race are simply not evolved enough to reach good for its own sake. Sometimes our condition makes me cry.
Thank you for continued interest. I do write for myself, but I also would like to see others find inspiration, encouragement or something beneficial.
I feel so sad for those who have to degrade and defile others. What horrible feelings they must have inside. What a terrible life awaits them if they never learn the answer to their angst!
@Nanny - Yup. Can't tell 'em. They're 2 smart 4 us.
@oceanstarr - Seemingly - so as to give the impression of having a certain quality; apparently.
So glad you found an ear. So sorry the dregs of society stomped through your house.
Nice Blog
Good for Xanga!
@James -
I was just thinking how much I miss my Xanga vacation house. I think it is time to get back there and freshen it up!
I have been out of the loop so long I didn't realize any of this happened. I am saddened that you had to experience any of it but glad it is over. Simply amazing to me that people find it entertaining to be mean. I don't like it. hugs to you. Sassy
@Sassenach_org - It leaves me mystified as well. Alas, such is life.
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